The Wisdom of Calvin

 

Preparing

We've  decided to add an adjacent ranch to our holdings, some 10,000 acres.  The owners wanted $1,000 an acre for it but there have been no takers for years because there's not a lot that can be done with it -- limited livestock grazing potential is about it, plus, with care, one annual crop of alfalfa hay, probably mostly Grade 2, some Grade 1 -- so they were happy to have us take it off their hands for a comparatively modest sum.  But it does have water, and water in the west is more valuable than gold and silver.  But we'll put this acreage in a conservation reserve program (lower taxes!) and leave the water where nature wants it.  We'll also do a lot of restoration work planting native vegetation to help re-establish a flourishing ecosystem.
As we completed the sale, the owners of a 6,000-acre ranch adjacent to our new holdings came to us offering a very reasonable price for their ranch. It was inherited land they did not know what do do with and wanted to be rid of.  We were happy to acquire it and for now, at least, also put it in a conservation reserve program.  
So in total we've added some 25 square miles to our fiefdom.  There's lots of game on the new land.  Aside from some roads and a few other improvements, most of it looks just as it did before the white man came.  That is, unless you are a botanist and can recognize all the invasive species.  And spot the changes caused by a lowered water table and hard-panning in a few places.  

One reason for the eagerness to sell ranch land is the collapse in beef prices during the Covid restaurant restrictions.  Prices have come back somewhat, but now there's a war on cattle and other livestock production because it's supposedly bad for the planet.  So people are nervous about having so much marginally productive lands on their hands, lands that are still taxed and involve potential legal liabilities for all sorts of things and require insurance to help protect against those.  But for us the additional land has real benefits.  One of these is security.  It's not a problem yet and our neighbors are good people, but since the governments, federal, state and local, no longer feel it necessary to enforce civil peace or prosecute criminals, we have to be practical and prepare for what may come.  The more we can isolate ourselves and our assets from the wider world the better off we should be.  So, at no little cost, obvious access roads are being obliterated and surveillance and monitoring equipment is being installed. And soon there will be only one way to easily enter our land and it will be double-gated and guarded.   Once you pass through that second gate you are safe in your person and property.  Isn't that worth a lot?

The world today

 

Baby Blue

 Art Laboe, the legendary DJ who passed away recently, broadcast a dedication to me on my birthday when I was in an overseas DoDEA high school. It played over Armed Forces Radio Pacific, as it was then called. The request wasn’t called in but mailed in some time in advance, but Laboe made it happen on the right date.
The song was “Baby Blue” by the Echoes, popular decades before I was born, but it seemed fresh and new to me. I still remember hearing that dedication over the radio and being amazed and thrilled. And I still love that song. 
The boy who dedicated it to me, a service brat as was I, I had known since we were seven years old.  Parental transfers meant we often didn't see each other for years, but we always kept in touch, and it was always assumed by both of us that we would marry.  We were meant for each other.  There could be no doubt. 
Then 9/11 happened and as soon as he was old enough, even though he had been accepted at the Jacobs School of Engineering at UC San Diego, he postponed his education to join the Marine Corps.  He was wounded in the fighting at Najaf and after a series of infections and amputations lasting more than a year, died of septic shock.

 

No more than a memory

Everyone needs a ghost.  No matter how busy our lives, how interesting our pleasures, there are depths of loneliness  that neither work nor pleasure can plumb, a little core of ourselves that needs someone to talk to or simply be with. Who can fill this need better than an understanding ghost?
Each of us not only needs a ghost but has a ghost.  We cannot see it or touch it or hear it, but it is there and keeps us company when there is no one else. A ghost, perhaps, is no more than a memory of someone once well loved. 

The Intruders, first broadcast by CBS Radio Mystery Theater, March 30, 1976:

Old War

As I've written before, one of my grandfathers was a naval aviator and his wife, my grandmother, was a navy nurse.  They got married before Pearl Harbor and both served throughout the war and stayed in the service afterwards.  During the war, my grandfather was shot down at sea and listed as MIA and probably dead, but was rescued weeks later.  Two other times he made it back to his carrier but his plane was so badly shot up that it was unrepairable and pushed over the side.  In all, he was wounded three times.  My grandmother served aboard a hospital ship during several island invasions.  The most harrowing was Iwo Jima, where casualties overwhelmed the ship, lining the passageways and filling the deck spaces.  She was sent ashore during the fighting to carry out triage on the beach. She went among the wounded like the angel of death, deciding who would live and who would be left to die.  Those who were not evacuated knew they were going to die as soon as she looked at their wounds and then moved on without calling up stretcher bearers to take them to the evacuation point.  After the war, my grandfather flew one of the first Navy jets, the F2H-2 Banshee and then the F9F-2, in which he flew flak suppression missions over North Korea.  My grandmother again served on a hospital ship during the war, and treated casualties from the Inchon landings.

My other grandfather I haven't written much because I didn't often see him, although I liked him a lot, because he retired to New England, which was not convenient to visit.  He joined the Army Air Force in the lead-up to Pearl Harbor and flew P-40s in New Guinea and then P-51s in England.  After the war, he left the service, and from what I understand, thought to get a job as an airline pilot, but single-engine fighter pilots held no attraction for the airlines.  They preferred transport pilots -- those who had flown military versions of the DC-3, DC-4 and Constellation.  Even multi-engine bomber pilots held little interest for the airlines because there were so many transport pilots to choose from.  In my grandfather's case, he eventually found a job with a Central American airline, TACA Guatemala, flying war surplus C-47s.   He was called back into the service for the Berlin Airlift, flying coal into the beleaguered city in the same type of plane.  After the Airlift, he decided to remain in the Air Force, it being a better life for him and his wife and  babies than going back to his old job.  He was assigned to a Douglas B-26 (nee A-26) unit stationed in Japan.  When the North Koreans invaded the South, he flew some of the first combat missions against them.  Due to a number of difficulties locating and identifying enemy targets in the fast-moving and confused early days of the fighting, he served stints as a ground-based Forward Air Controller, where he saw combat from the foot soldier's point of view.  After serving in Korea, he was recruited to join the Strategic Air Command, where he flew B-47s and later B-52s out of bases in New England. 

Dead Chinese soldiers killed in hand-to-hand fighting in front of US foxholes.

During the Viet Nam war, he flew bombing missions out of Guam, including during the Christmas bombing, after which he retired to a quiet life in Maine. 

Retreating US soldiers pass by dead Americans killed in a Chinese ambush

From what I have learned, his experiences in the Korean War affected him more than those of the other wars he was in, perhaps because he was involved in a massive military defeat and retreat by American forces and the largest seaborne evacuation in history, dwarfing the Dunkirk operation, the rescue of the United Nations armed forces trapped at Hungnam by the Chinese as well as many thousands of Korean refugees in what was called the Christmas Miracle. He saw it all first hand on the ground, not merely from the air, although he saw it that way, too.  Maybe it was a combination of seeing the bird's eye, or god-like, view of the fighting and then being right there on the ground in the middle of it, that affected him so profoundly.  The Chinese invasion of Korea was massive (250,000 troops), extremely brutal, and overwhelmingly violent.  Korean civilians fled the Chinese onslaught as the Americans fought desperately to at least slow down the invaders.  Once the troops reached the harbor at Hungnam, they formed a perimeter and held off the attacks of Chinese while almost 100,000 civilian Koreans were evacuated on US Navy ships, then all supplies and equipment were loaded onto LSTs. Nothing was left behind.  Finally, the American troops were evacuated under the protection of naval gunfire, including the massive cannon of the battleship Missouri.  When all were embarked, Navy demolition teams blew up all the harbor facilities in a series of massive explosions that rocked the ships still in the harbor.

Jeep blown up by Chinese artillery.  One killed, three wounded.

Bombed train burning in Pyongyang.

The living walk, the dead ride.  US troops retreating.

Dead mortar platoon sergeant killed by Chinese arty.

Dead American GI's pet dog refuses to leave him.

US "Long Tom" artillery fires on approaching Chinese.

US Army howitzers ring Hungnam perimeter continuously firing on Chinese

Captured US soldiers, hands tied behind their backs, executed by the Chinese.

American GI captured by the Chinese, hands tied behind his back, executed and left along the road,.

October!

 

Date night

The other day, as I've written, I went dancing with my favorite uncle and we had a swell time swinging and swaying to a live dance band playing the hits of Glen Miller, Benny Goodman, Tommy Dorsey and Woody Herman -- preach your sermon, Herman!  And this past weekend my first cousin once removed (that is, my uncle's son's son -- I think I got that right), who graduated from high school in June and who just finished a summer school course in ballroom dancing, asked me to go dancing with him.  I thought sure, why not?  It'll be fun.  Most males of any age will not dance, so why decline an opportunity?

The dance club I went to with my uncle is closed all this month and there are not a lot of options for dancing that are not some kind of crummy club scene, but I did find a members-only club that features live foxtrot, swing, jump blues and cool jazz by local and visiting bands.  It's located in the defunct railroad station I mentioned in an earlier post. So I bought a membership, pleased to find such a venue, and, as I had done with my uncle, reserved a hotel room for us to change into our dancing duds once we arrived in the big city.

For the long drive from the boondocks to civilization, my uncle lent us his Cadillac CT6-V with, it seemed, all the options, and we started driving for the bright lights of civilization late in the day, enjoying seeing a gibbous moon rise ahead of us.  Once, some antelope darted across the road, and we stopped counting all the coyotes and jackrabbits we saw.  We chatted idly as the miles slipped by, the car a delight to drive, and cuz told me about being in the JROTC and planning to have a career in the navy and that gave us plenty to talk about, and made the time pass quickly. 

At the hotel we changed into our "puttin' on the Ritz" rags and I must say the young gentleman looked quite handsome in a suit and tie and I said so as I retied his tie into a neater knot and made sure it hung straight.  I took a safety pin out of my  purse and fixed the tie to his shirt from behind and out of sight so that it wouldn't fly up, something I always do for el Jefe.  Nobody seems to wear tie pins or tie chains anymore.  My dad always wore a tie pin. 

When he saw my ensemble -- and I did a little pose and pirouette -- cuz's face grew beet red and he sat down with his hands in his lap, not quite the reaction I had expected.  But then a light bulb lit up over my head and I got it:  teenage boy, raging hormones....  So I told him not to worry about it, that sort of thing happens at his age and it was actually kind of flattering.  Remembering my mother's admonitions, I refrained from making any risque jokes. But it was hard.

So off we went to the club, driving this time because it was too far to reasonably walk.  Cuz was silent and stared out the window, not once looking at me.  I was pretty sure I understood why, and thought that, in consideration of him, I should not have worn such a short minidress, although that style is easy to make dance moves in. I let the car parallel park itself -- I could have done a better job; no, really -- and we went in.  The host carded my, um, date and warned us that he could not be served any alcoholic drinks and I said that was fine.  I didn't want any either.  In that case, he said, there would be a slight cover charge to ameliorate overhead.  So we had to pay not to drink.  Never heard of that before.  Oh, well.

We were led to a cozy booth, the kind where both parties sit on the same side, with a good view of the band, which was tearing up the joint with a jump blues number.  We sat it out waiting for our virgin cokes -- when I ordered them 2cuz blushed and I reminded myself that all this was new to him -- and taking in the ambience of the club and watching the other dancers.

The next number was a swing tune that sounded vaguely familiar and we decided to give it a whirl.  At first he was a bit awkward and made some false steps but when I told him to just let himself fall into the music and not think about what he was doing he smoothed out and did much better. We danced three numbers in a row before we sat down again and he was still rarin' to go.  When I slid into the booth and scooched over for him he didn't look away, then he sat down beside me, executing the move rather gingerly and ending up about two feet closer to me than he had been when we first sat down.  

He ordered the cokes this time, as well as some snack food.  While we were eating, he somehow managed to drop his fork and had to duck down under the table to retrieve it.  He spent more time down there than seemed really necessary. Smooth, I thought to myself, real smooth. I wasn't angry or upset, just amused. He surfaced panting slightly and apologized, showing me the fork.  I said he should ask for a clean one but he wiped it off on his napkin.  

A thought suddenly occurred to me and I asked if he had brought his cell phone. He said, of course! and I suggested we have our server take a photo of us.  He was enthusiastic, saying wait till he showed the guys what a hot date really looked like.  I figured he would not mention that his "hot date" was also his cousin.  So we had some snapshots taken and we bent our heads together to look at them, commenting on which one we liked. I took the phone from him to get a better look at the one he liked best and then kind of absently scrolled back to some earlier shots.  

Ah hah!  I knew it.  Upskirts of yours truly.  He tried to retrieve his phone but I held it up high and out of his reach.  But he persisted and I immediately realized doing that was not wise as he leaned over me and pushing me down onto the booth seat with him heavily on top of me. He probably weighed 60 or 70 athletic pounds more than me. I let him have his stupid phone but he didn't let me up right away.  I said, "They are going to throw us out of here in about two seconds if you don't get off of me." He hesitated, mumbled sorry, and let me up.  I was not pleased, but I didn't want to spoil an evening that had just begun and that I had been looking forward to, so I managed a smile and let it go.

I straightened my clothes and excused myself to visit the ladies lounge to get some time to try to figure out how to carry out the rest of the evening.  My plan had been to dance at the club till around 9:30 or ten, then have a late dinner, change back into our driving clothes and head home, getting there around one am or two at the latest.  Now.... Cuz might feel bad about what he had done and just want to go home.  I didn't want him to feel that way, so I thought I would let him know I understood that the situation got the best of him and I wasn't offended, and I didn't mind continuing on with our evening.  Then I considered that I was probably putting thoughts into his head that weren't there.  He might be thinking how he could do it -- and even more -- again.  He was a guy, after all. So I decided that I shouldn't let myself be a literal push-over, but teach him some kind of lesson about how to behave with a woman.  He needed to learn self-discipline.  But I couldn't think how to do that.  A man could have read him the riot act and he would have listened, but a man, even a young one, being scolded or lectured by a woman just finds her annoying.  Doing it is a waste of time.  And I sure wasn't going to pout or sulk or act like I had been emotionally damaged for life.  I have my dignity.  The kid was just a randy jerk.  What to do? 

As I made my way back to our booth deciding maybe the best thing to do or say was nothing, a man who appeared to be in his middle forties accosted me as I passed by his table and invited me to sit down.  I told him I was on my way back to my date.  The band was just starting up another number and he said, "Well, how about a dance first?"  To that I agreed, glad to have the chance to delay deciding how to deal with cuz.  The guy was  a good dancer and it was a pleasure to relax into his lead.  He said my date looked pretty young and I explained the situation and also complimented him on his dancing and how pleasant it was not to have to worry about any clumsy moves.

Glancing over at our both, he said, "Speaking of clumsy moves, I saw the move he put on you.  He must have thought he was in the back seat of his dad's car.  What started it?  Why were you holding his phone away from him?"  I said that he had taken some photos I didn't like.

"Of you?"

"Yes."

"When he dived under the table?"

"Yes."

"Has he been drinking or is he high?"

"Not that I can tell.  Just randy."

"You can't blame him for being that.  If you were my date, I'd be randy, too."

As he said that, he slipped his hand from the small of my back to caress my hind quarters, where he let it stay.  I was about to tell him to keep his hands off the merchandise but suddenly I felt tired.  What the hell.  This evening was not turning out at all the way I had imagined it would.  Let the guy feel me up.  I'd noticed he was wearing a wedding ring, so I asked where his wife was.  He said she was at home.  She had been crippled in an automobile accident and couldn't get around very easily anymore, let alone dance.  

"So you go out and hit on strange women?"

"Pretty much.  Sometimes I get lucky."

"Well, not with me.  Thanks for the dance and the butt squeeze."

"Oh, the pleasure was all mine.  Thank you!  Good luck with your young date."  And he gave me the most lascivious leer.

My cousin stood up to let me in the booth, then slid in next to me.  He started to say something about his previous behavior but I cut him off, saying harshly, "Oh, forget it!"  Then, regretting my peevishness, gave him a peck on the cheek and patted his arm. As I did so, a 50ish couple walked past our booth and the woman said, half to her companion and half to me (as I thought), "Robbing the cradle, I see."  The man said, "Well, some like them young."  And she retorted, "Just like you!" and he replied, "Now wait just a minute, what brought that on?" And they walked away getting into an argument.

My cousin became agitated but I told him not to mind such comments.  We weren't really on a date, weren't a couple, just two cousins out dancing because neither of us had anyone else to dance with. We shouldn't let the misunderstandings and rudeness of others interfere with our evening.  You're always going to run into jerks and you can't let them get under your skin.  That's what they want.  Don't give them the satisfaction.  

Then we got into a discussion of what I found attractive in a man and I mentioned that, among other things, stoicism was very appealing to me.  It demonstrated strength of character, I believed.  I also liked a man who was capable, didn't boast but could get the job done, whatever the job was, without a lot of fanfare.  Of course, he should be physically fit -- no beer belly! -- but I didn't like the gym muscle look.  What I liked was a man fit from working, especially from being outdoors and working outdoors.  He also should like and understand animals, have a nice smile, be even-tempered....  And at this point I realized  I was was just rambling on, enamored by my own blabbering, and shut up. 

I asked him what he found attractive in a woman.  He immediately said, "Someone like you!" and I said, "Oh, get out of town!  You do not!  Come on, think of some girl in high school that caught your eye."

Then he told me about this girl he was crazy about.  He knew where her locker was and he would make sure to be walking down the hall just as she arrived there to get books and notes for the next class.  One time she glanced up as he passed and smiled at him, but he had frozen up inside and ignored her.  The next time he passed by her she didn't look at him.  He was so mad at himself.  All he had to do was smile back and say "Hi."  But he couldn't.

I put my hand on his and said, "There'll be other such girls, other opportunities.  Consider those girls just like me.  You're talking to me, aren't you?  I'm just another person who is enjoying getting to know you.  And you got pretty out of hand there a few minutes ago and nothing came of it because I like you and forgive your idiocies."

"Yeah, but you're different from other girls."

"No, I'm not.  I'm just your standard-issue female."

At this point, the band started a slow swing number and I glanced at the dance floor.  He picked up my cue and led me out onto the floor.  A couple of times his hand slipped from the small of my back to my rump and rested there. I think he was emulating what he saw that man do.  Since I hadn't smacked the creep's hand away, I let my cousin's hand wander.  He kept glancing down and I thought he was looking at his feet to judge his dance steps and I was about to say he would be smoother if he wasn't self-conscious about his movements, but then I realized he was taking in my cleavage.  Apparently, progress had been made in alleviating his shyness around women. 

After one more dance, I asked him if he was hungry and he said he was starving, so we wrapped up our club visit and headed to a local cafe that specializes in burgers made with local beef and he vacuumed up two double bacon cheeseburgers with extra-large sides of french fries and onion rings.  And he still had room for apple pie a la mode.  I had a club sandwich and filched some of his fries and an onion ring.  When I went for another one, he smacked my hand and we both laughed.  Then he relented and let me have it.  Mr. Shy Guy was definitely gone. 

When we got back to the hotel it was just after midnight and the night clerk had come on duty. He remembered me from when I had been there with my uncle.  He looked from me to my cousin and back again, made a sort of twist with his mouth but said nothing.  When we got to our room, my cousin said he was still hungry and looked over the room service night snack menu.  I told him not to order anything that would take a lot of time to prepare as I had promised to get him home tonight and if we stayed overnight we would both be in the doghouse.  So he picked out a strawberry cheesecake and then asked if it would be all right if he also ordered a beer.  I hesitated but said okay.  When I placed the order, the operator asked if the beer was for me, so apparently even the room service staff knew who was in Room 1313. I said it was.  While we waited for the order to arrive, my cousin asked to take some selfies with us together and I agreed without thinking much about it.  Later, I thought, Lord, he is going to show those around to his buddies and it will be obvious we are in a hotel room together.  That little...  But whatever. 

While he ate his cheesecake and drank his beer, I took a shower, intending to change into my driving clothes and get us home, but I'd left them on the bed, so I wrapped the bath towel around myself and went to fetch them. When I came out of the bathroom, my cousin was sprawled across the bed asleep. I tried to wake him, even leaned over and shook him, but the beer and all that food seemed to have finally done for him and he just muttered something.  Then he pulled me down on top of him and slid his hands under my towel, pushing it aside.  After a brief tussle, I broke his grip and got off the bed and retrieved my towel, which he had tossed on the floor next to him.  As I did so, he said, "Wanda, Wanda, I love you," and then he rolled over with his back to me.  I said, "You're on my clothes.  I want my clothes.  Will you please get off my clothes?"  But he didn't respond.

Suddenly I felt exhausted myself and...I don't know...defeated.  This evening had not gone at all as I had planned.  I sure didn't feel like driving a couple of hours through the night, keeping alert for animals dashing across the road, to get back home.  

I noticed the time and remembered el Jefe was going to Skype me in a few hours as he always did since he began this deployment.  I knew I couldn't stay awake that long so I chanced calling him.  I stood by the window to ensure a good connection.  

The street below was empty, bathed in orange light.  Far down the street I saw a small green and blue neon sign alternately flashing  a cocktail glass and the name of the bar: The Green Lantern.  The name seemed familiar and I wondered if it was the title of some 1940s or '50s pop tune.  I imagined Philip Marlowe sitting at the bar ordering a rye and the barmaid looking him over and asking if that was a gun in his pocket or was he glad to see her and he answering it's actually a gun, honey.  Imagining the scene, I chuckled.  I often make myself laugh at the silly thoughts that roam around inside my head.

The Skype connection came through clear and smooth from the other side of the world and el Jefe was there.  I'd explained to him before that I would be taking my cousin dancing so he asked how that went and I told him the whole story, down to the hotel desk clerk giving me the fish eye.  I panned the phone around so he could see my cousin asleep on the bed.  The evening's events he thought funny and also arousing.  I don't know why.  I certainly didn't. 

I always provided him relief on our Skypes and this time was no different.  I went into the bathroom but the signal cut out so I had to go back to the window.  I asked if we could postpone until later but he said he would not be available later and please....  

I didn't want to turn on any lights and wake my cousin so I pushed the chair from the room's writing desk next to the window to get light from the streetlights and buildings across the street, propped my cell phone on the window sill and satisfied him.

When the call was over, I slipped my towel back over my shoulders as I stood up and glanced at my cousin.  So engrossed in the call had I been that I'd forgotten about him. He appeared to still be sleeping.  But he could be feigning.  I studied him closely for a few seconds and thought I saw him move. Then I thought, oh, who cares? 

I had another quick shower, then stood beside the bed, hesitating. I looked at the upholstered sitting chair in the corner.  I didn't want to try to sleep in that and I didn't want to sleep on the floor.  I got a blanket out of the closet and covered my cousin, then crawled beneath the sheets, cold against my skin.  I thought I would fall asleep right away, I was so tired, but I didn't.  

I stared up at the ceiling thinking over the evening.  I should be more forceful dealing with people I told myself for the umpteenth time.  But I hate conflict and just want to get along with everybody.  I enjoy pleasing people and making them happy.  So people take advantage.  Well, that was just me.  I couldn't change my personality.  I was who I was.  Finally, I decided that it had been, all things considered, a very interesting evening.  Nothing bad had actually happened. I did get to dance to a pretty good live band, which is what I had wanted to do.  My last thought before I fell asleep was that I really missed el Jefe and wished it was him on the bed next to me. 

 Some jump blues:

Bury My Heart

I have fallen in love with American names, 
The sharp names that never get fat, 
The snakeskin-titles of mining-claims, 
The plumed war-bonnet of Medicine Hat, 
Tucson and Deadwood and Lost Mule Flat.

Seine and Piave are silver spoons, 
But the spoonbowl-metal is thin and worn, 
There are English counties like hunting-tunes 
Played on the keys of a postboy’s horn, 
But I will remember where I was born. 
   

I will remember Carquinez Straits, 
Little French Lick and Lundy’s Lane, 
The Yankee ships and the Yankee dates 
And the bullet-towns of Calamity Jane. 
I will remember Skunktown Plain. 

I will fall in love with a Salem tree 
And a rawhide quirt from Santa Cruz, 
I will get me a bottle of Boston sea 
And a blue-gum nigger to sing me blues. 
I am tired of loving a foreign muse. 

Rue des Martyrs and Bleeding-Heart-Yard, 
Senlis, Pisa, and Blindman’s Oast, 
It is a magic ghost you guard 
But I am sick for a newer ghost, 
Harrisburg, Spartanburg, Painted Post. 

I shall not rest quiet in Montparnasse. 
I shall not lie easy at Winchelsea. 
You may bury my body in Sussex grass, 
You may bury my tongue at Champmedy. 
I shall not be there. I shall rise and pass. 
Bury my heart at Wounded Knee.

~ Stephen Vincent Benét 

 

Shall We Dance?

 In a normal state of mind, you are always thinking a little bit ahead, sometimes quite far ahead, as at the same time you are thinking a little bit in the past, sometimes quite deeply into the past.  But you scarcely notice the present.  It's constantly racing past anyway.  Is it now...or now...or now...or...?

Dancing places you in the moment.  It's the spell of the sensuous.  Neither past nor present exist.  Only now.  Only this instant.  You are intensely aware of yourself at this moment.  You have lost yourself in the eternal present.  

Plus it's fun.

“Dancers are the athletes of God.”
  ― Albert Einstein

A cold earth wanderer

 

She reminds me of me when I was her age, and the people I knew then.

I traveled through a land of men,
A land of men -- and women too --
And heard and saw such dreadful things
As cold earth wanderers never knew.
 ~ William Blake

Guardian Angel, first broadcast by CBS Radio Radio Mystery Theater on July 11, 1978.